Comments on: Lessons On Parenting

By: Brandon

Brandon — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:16:11 +0000

Great post, I have a lot of the same feelings about how I want to raise my kids. I hope everything went well for your family today.

As a side note, my 2 year old son had almost the exact same costume for Halloween this year
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By: Sean Willson

Sean Willson — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 18:27:49 +0000

Thank you for the kind words … I think your right that all good parents question what they’re doing and if they’re doing it right. If we didn’t I think we’d be on autopilot probably missing or neglecting the signs our children were giving us.

By: Sean Willson

Sean Willson — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 18:23:01 +0000

I couldn’t agree with you more. I’ve always been someone who tells my wife constantly how much I love her. I do the same with my little girl, she’s bring joy to me every day.

Thank you for the kind words, they made me smile

By: Sean Willson

Sean Willson — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 18:21:04 +0000

I think a parents words are so hugely important, I too couldn’t imagine saying the words my father said to me to my children. I’m just not wired that way thankfully.

It’s important for me to write about my journey … to me it’s an integral part of this experience and only makes me stronger and more resolved. I’m happy it touched a chord someone like yourself, hopefully in a positive light.

My wife and I greatly appreciate the positive energy, thank you.

By: Erin

Erin — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 14:20:06 +0000

First of all, prayers lifted and good vibes sent your way that your new baby arrives healthy and beautiful (I KNOW he will be).

I think that all good parents question themselves – are we doing enough? Do we praise our children enough? Do we give them enough love and attention? In my life, I am both Mom and Dad. My son does not have a father figure, and I do worry that his lack of a good male role model might someday affect him, although he doesn’t know any differently now. I make do the best I can and hope it sticks.

You’re an awesome Dad to your daughter, Sean! You will be an awesome Dad to your son, too!
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By: Heather

Heather — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 13:32:37 +0000

I had a conversation with my roommate just yesterday about how our world would be a better place if parents would just tell their kids how much they love them, and that they’re proud of them. Like, every day. I got really lucky with my parents, I think, but there’s a lot of people out there who are being held back, even as adults, because of the things they were told and the way they were treated throughout their childhood. Mostly by their parents – the very people who are supposed to love them unconditionally!

Reading your post, though…gosh, I have no doubt that you’re going to be an amazing parent. Well, actually, it’s clear that you already are!

All the best,

Heather
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By: Josie

Josie — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:17:52 +0000

Wow, such wisdom here. Before I comment on the meat of your post I just want to again say Congratulations and I really hope all goes well during delivery for both baby and mother (and you!). Sending lots of positive energy your way!

Onto the meat of your post…I can relate to a lot of what you’ve written here. Growing up we NEVER ate at the dining room table. Ever. Not even for holidays. We always just made our plates and ate in the living room while watching TV. No wonder I had bad eating habits! I’m also a child of divorce…and have also been berated by my ‘father figure’. It’s no fun being 14 and being told you’re useless. UGH. I’m not a perfect parent by any means, but I could never even imagine saying anything remotely similar to my girls.

You are making strides now to ensure that your children will have the kind of parents they will look up to…and they will. They will see their dad a strong, committed, loving person who wanted nothing but the best for them. This post of yours touched me deeply, thank you so much for sharing on such a personal level.
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